Ask yourself "what will I lose if I get caught." Weigh that vs. getting your dick wet. If you are OK with the potential loss if found out then drill her. If not,  forget about it.

i think it's a slippery slope man.  there is unfortunately no free lunch in this world.  it may start out this way, but women are women.  better to rent vs buy.

Heck, I would be very tempted to go for it tbh - i know the fantasties i've had abt some of my ex-work colleagues!

But if you have kids involved, its a different story. Try and spend less time with her and she'll find another victim.

The fact you bothered to ask means you KNOW the answer yourself already!  Maybe looking for us to convince you otherwise.

Aint happening!  Don't shit were you eat!  If she plays as much as she says you can be sure the other girls know or suspect (probably know... Girls talk!).  When you're seen together they'll know even more.  Next christmas party, summer work bbq or whatever could be more awkward than you wish.

Hell, we all have colleagues we want to bang!  That's why we go to WGs and release!  

Too close to home, Bro!  Avoid.

I personally see having unpaid sex a more turn on than paying for it......... Its like pure porn

Don't do it. Not with someone at work. It may be big consequences.

The advice you are getting here is good my friend, my advice is the same "don't cum in your own pay packet" that is just plain fucked up and you will likely get yourself messed up badly. I have had similar opportunities but as tempting as they are I really dont think it will be worth it. When you play, do so as far from home as you can, the little things can bring you undone. Let me give you a couple of examples:

1. I had a unbelievably good FB far from home for several years, she knew my situation accurately (no false promises) and I knew hers and all went well (me=married & children), her single. She hooked up with a guy and our relationship stopped for several years & she married the guy (telling him all about us). A couple of years later she gives me a call and wants to hook up and I'm a little concerned but very keen (she is unbelievable between the sheets), assures me she will be discrete etc. We have several excellent adventures together BUT she is not as careful and clever as she thinks and is busted by her SO who calls me up for a chat... understandably he is upset (to put it mildly) and threatens me with all kinds of deadly violence not to mention a few calls to home. I just about had a heart ttack when I realised what was going on. Pure luck helped me to avoid the dreaded calls home and subsequent fall out.

2. Hooked up with a delightful SYT for several years, again she was unattached but lived in the same city as me. Like the previous relationship she understood my situation and I was very clear that there was no long term future for us in the picture under any circumstances. We had a brilliant time, travelled a bit together and fucked like rabbits. Only issue was over time she was looking for more, we talked a number of times and she bad a bunch of ideas which were outside our understanding and I told her i wanted to break off the arrangement - well there is no more bitter, angry thing than a woman scorned, that is for fucking sure brothers. Again, I was unable to avoid the poison call home but only through a lot of sweat and serious manouvering. That one aged me a few years I can tell you.

My point is that no matter what you agree up front with a FB it always gets more complicated and you can get fucked over in the blink of an eye. Silent numbers, short notice holidays, etc will only keep your secret for so long. If you do a girl from your office while you are in a position of authority AND married you are fucking crazy unless you don't care about your job and relationship - you have a lot to lose.

The oher thing is that I have told no one about these relationships but I know that both girls have told others about the relationships, just another way to get busted my friends. Gentlemen, it is much easier to pay to play and add in the odd one night stand around the place where possible, keep your dick in your pants in the office, if you have to, then get a similar looking WL to fuck and pretend it's your office girl!!

I know the feeling. I did it with a friend in her office after work. She doesn't work with me. She's isolated from my usual friendship group and especially no way of her getting in touch with my wife, but even so I felt wracked with guilt and remorse. The biggest terror was when we started banging away and I wanted to put on a condom so I could climax inside her. At that point she said no comdom as she's allergic to latex. Fuck! I was close to orgasm and had to spray on the outside of her pussy then. I was freaking out that she would get pregnant but lucky she had just had her period (small blood mark on the corner of my shirt! Had to wash that out before I got home!!!) And this is from a parent of a lovely 18mth daughter and a newborn baby.

Reading the above I feel like I'm such a shithead for taking such a risk. I would strongly advise everyone against it if you're in the same position as me. There's so much to lose.... Your kids will never forgive you. And despite it feeling so intense because I'd the secrecy and taboo, you really need to focus the attention elsewhere, on your family, and if absolutely necessary, go for a quick bang on a 141 walkup girl. I know, I know, quality varies whereas the colleague is an absolute stunner, your ultimate fantasy and you know she's up for it too. But leave it as a fantasy and take that good karma for the remainder of your married life.

Yep I know the feeling all too well!
But this kind of porn cannot be switched off when you like... The FB might have a moment of madness and call you in despair.... Ok if you're single, absolute he'll if you're married with kids!!!

I know the feeling. I did it with a friend in her office after work. She doesn't work with me. She's isolated from my usual friendship group and especially no way of her getting in touch with my wife, but even so I felt wracked with guilt and remorse. The biggest terror was when we started banging away and I wanted to put on a condom so I could climax inside her. At that point she said no comdom as she's allergic to latex. Fuck! I was close to orgasm and had to spray on the outside of her pussy then. I was freaking out that she would get pregnant but lucky she had just had her period (small blood mark on the corner of my shirt! Had to wash that out before I got home!!!) And this is from a parent of a lovely 18mth daughter and a newborn baby.

Reading the above I feel like I'm such a shithead for taking such a risk. I would strongly advise everyone against it if you're in the same position as me. There's so much to lose.... Your kids will never forgive you. And despite it feeling so intense because I'd the secrecy and taboo, you really need to focus the attention elsewhere, on your family, and if absolutely necessary, go for a quick bang on a 141 walkup girl. I know, I know, quality varies whereas the colleague is an absolute stunner, your ultimate fantasy and you know she's up for it too. But leave it as a fantasy and take that good karma for the remainder of your married life.

Generally the advice given her on not to shit where you work, is pretty sound. The risk of a sexual harassment complaint (if you are in a position of authority over her, and sometimes even if you are not) is something to seriously consider. I generally avoid getting entanglements of a sexual nature at work except in cases where I am about to leave the company or she is. Part of this from a  somewhat traumatic experience in my younger days.

When I worked for a small company, I became my CEO's blue-eyed boy after impressing her with my abilities. She was a hot MILF in her 30s, with a tight body despite having had 3 kids. Well she kept taking me along for business trips, and eventually she made a move on me. Being young, single and horny, I happily succumbed to her advances. It went on for over a year, but only during business trips (except for a couple times in the office, when we both worked late and everyone else had gone home) which were pretty often. I thought I had it made. I started a relationship with a GF (outside of work), so I had plenty of action on the weekends. During business trips, I did the boss. And at other times, I would monger around and had a few regulars.

It all came crashing down fast within a 2 week period. First, my GF's period was late (we did it bareback as she was on the pill) and she panicked thinking she was pregnant. I got scared too. After clearing it up when the doc said she wasn't pregnant, and it was probably due to work stress, I thought I was fine and dandy. Then, one day, my boss pulled me aside and took me out of the office. She told me, I had gotten her pregnant (she wanted it bareback, she was on the diaphragm). . She was freaked out and worried that her husband would find out. She seemed on the point of a nervous breakdown. I was speechless and not sure what to do, as she's the boss, and I had just gone through one stressful week, only to have it repeat, only now its for real. Eventually she arranged for a secret abortion (she and her husband had already decided 3 was enough). After that, our FB relationship just tapered off and died.

So.... moral of the story, avoid work sex! Unless you are willing to take the risk. When single and young, you don't have that much to lose. But as you get older, married (or in long term relationship), and more senior in your career, you have a lot more to lose!