this is bad news. a married friend of mine started a relationship with a ktv girl who fell for him. theyd go out on dates, hed give her gifts etc etc.

the guy eventually gets tired of her and starts avoiding her. the girl of course doesnt take this too well... so she messages him on facebook (dunno how she found him but she did) and threatens to tell his wife everything. this scares the shit out of him so he starts talking to her again. but we all know its not gonna work out.

long story short, the wife eventually finds out and it is WORLD WAR 3. the girl wouldnt stop texting the guys wife saying shes so angry and that she cant forgive the guy for breaking her heart or whatever. meanwhile, the wife is going ape shit on my friend!

so, my friend asks for my help. i buy a new simcard and text the girl that the wife has connections with the local police and that they are hunting her down already so she better get a new simcard because they can track her whenever she uses her old phone. she fell for it. but the damage to my friends marriage had already been done.

Ouch!!!  What happened to your friend's marriage?

At least the girl shut up though but I guess it shows some WGs really do have feelings too.  Still, I have to wonder how the WG found him on facebook since I thought you couldn't access it on the mainland!

Been seeing this DH / part-time WG for about 10 months now, usually every weekend. Met her at new makati on a Saturday night last summer... it was really empty that night. Her and her friend were dancing, and well, she knows how to dance (and I'm sure that some of you have fucked her as she's been on the scene for a few years). Did the whole bullshit conversation, drinking, dancing thing. She told me she was a DH, which was kind of true, though she later told me that at that time she was waiting for her new visa so working full time as a WG. Took her to ming court for 2 hours of fun. Hung out till the morning at the bridge, then went home, never expecting to see her again.

Saw her a few weeks later at Laguna. Got chatting and enjoyed her company. Got her number and she took me to a love hotel in causeway bay for a night of great sex.

Since then, its been lots of fun. She has had what I would consider a tough life, but she's so happy and positive. She's really generous too, always giving money to her leeching 'friends' and family. I spend lots of time telling her to keep it for herself. And she's an insatiable nympho. Sometimes I'll meet her after a she spends a night with some punter, and she'll still want me to fuck her all day. Luckily she has plans to go back home in the next few years and has a childhood lover back there, so no pressure to have a serious relationship.

theyre still together, but i doubt everything went back to the way it used to be. once shit like that happens, the girl will FOREVER doubt everything the guy does.

were from the philippines by the way so no firewalls on facebook.

id like to think that what i did to stop the girl was pretty smooth and all, but honestly, during that time, my head was also a blur. i was not "smooth" at all! we were both like headless chickens running around.

the first thing that hit me when my friend told me everything was "shit, if she can find him, then she can find me!" the girl also knew me by face bec i was always with my friend whenever we visited the ktv that she worked in. and with all the tagging bullsh*t that facebook had... i mean i dont have a facebook account, so people tag my wifes account on MY pictures! SHIT! THATS EVEN WORSE!

or "what if the psycho club girl tells my friend's wife how they met and describes me as my friend's partner in crime!? whos ass is next in line? my wife and my friends wife know each other! shit shit shit!"

I think the lesson we all will ignore from this is...

dont punt where you poop!

On a more serious note...

You do not actually pay for sex.  Sex can easily be gotten for free.  The reason you pay is to make them go away without causing trouble.

Yea, be careful of facebook now since they have that automatic face-recognition technology now!  It's set to 'enable' by default unless you deliberately deactivate it.  Automatic face-recognition technology means auto suggested tags.  I'd strongly recommend you take action to rectify this immediately!

I dont know...  life is too short to NOT punt in Hong Kong.  

Like saying "Don't eat steak at Morton's Steakhouse".  Fuck it...  what else shall we give up in life?  Hell, steak will cause my arteries to clog, but I aint quitting my red meat either.  

It's all a matter of what you are willing to risk, taking educated risks (accepting that it IS still a risk), and whether you can back up your debt with assets if the shit hits the fan.

Me?  Yeah, I play on the edge, to be sure.., but have done so for twenty years now and have developed a host of defenses (sms filters, alibis, etc.).  Will it catch me one day?  Probably.  Will I give it up out of fear of the consequences?  No.  I made a decent fortune by not being afraid of failure.  And I am having a bloody good time by not being afraid.  It works for me.  Is it for everybody?  No, of course not.   

I am not saying be boldly reckless.  (though, yeah, I have been at times... and I smile when I recall those great moments that I got away with!).  But to shut off Hong Kong is not a viable an option - I aint travelling 90 minutes to CP (one way) every time I want a gal.

If you have nothing to lose, I agree.  In my case the risks are a little too great... if only I knew fewer people!  Doesn't help that I don't enough fellow mongerers/punters as friends.  Care to share a few tricks since you're so much more experienced, wander?

Bro, you miss my point.

We ALL have something to lose.  I have a LOT to lose (if everything went to the extreme worst case).  

But do I give up on life (the life I want) because of fear of the worst case?  Many, many, many do.  This same trait keeps them in middle-management roles.  

We are only here once, Bro.  Live it up.

Again, don't get we wrong.., I prepare and plot and plan and protect (excessively) most every move to ensure I have a way out.  Just like I do in business.  It is not reckless abandon I practice (well, sometimes!) - but mostly it is determined and thought-out evenings where I have an alibi or reason to be gone.     

I will not leave this planet without trying to do every fucking thing I ever wanted to do.

EDIT:  I had to add something.  I am not an ego-maniac nutcase.  But I do believe (and have totally embraced since I was about 9 years old) two things:  1) We're not here long (so if you're gonna do something, DO IT NOW!), and 2). Nothing is given to you, but it is there......  Go get it.  All of it!

[ Last edited by  wander at 14-6-2011 20:40 ]

speaking of planning, ive been punting for years even before i met my wife, so when we got married, i made sure to only have sex every other day! the rest of the days, i pretend to be tired and just jack off... even if im REALLY horny for my wife. i have been pretending about how much i want to have sex (which is everyday ) since day one! just so i can have free days for punting!

Just a quick update on my own situation (and to show that things usually do fall apart):

WG #1 (the one who I spent the day with):
Was recently on her rag and she went back to her home for 4 days. Asked if I'd pick her up at the airport (told her I couldn't), and then asked if she could come over for a night before going back to work (also declined, didn't want to lead her on). She also brought back some produce from her home that she wanted to give to me, but I also declined that as well, again, not wanting to lead her on.

WG #2 (the cologne giver):
Right after my birthday, she started texting/calling non-stop. Every text was "where are you" or "what are you doing", and she'd drop those ever so subtle hints that she thought I was out at other saunas (to be fair, she was right maybe 50% of the time, heh heh). She'd throw little hissy fits that I didn't return her calls right away or text back immediately, so I finally had to tell her to relax (which she really didn't) and then called the whole thing off.

So yes, while they do fall for customers, I think their perspective and take on relationships is definitely skewed, mostly through trust issues (and to be honest, they have a right to be distrustful! haha)