So what is mongering in my terms?
There is no fine definition of mongering, but mongering means in my terms to go further then you need to(in a bad way).

Why I started this thread?
I started this thread to help people that aren't sure if they really want to go monger or not.

What you need to know!
I am not pushing you to go monger or whatever, it's all your own decision in the end.

Some things you really need to know before you start with this hobby:

Disadvantages :

• A. Your chances of getting diseases will increase if you don't do it safe
  
• B. Mongering cost money
  
• C. People will think you are a pervert if they find out
  
• D. ... (other none pleasant things)
  

Advantages:

• A. Your needs will be satisfied
  

As you see I personally wouldn't recommend you to do this hobby since there are so many disadvantages in contrary to the advantages. But well we are all men and to be a real man we don't care about that ... If you have a wife or girlfriend please reconsider what you just thought. If your wife or girlfriend finds out you pay for girls , there is a 90+ percentage chance you will break up and that's not the only thing, she might tell your family and friends what you did to her and your social life will be pretty ruined...

Some young guys will think , I have a girlfriend(that had sex before) but I haven't. And you don't want to disappoint her of your skills, should you go monger? My advice is No, don't do it. If it is your first time don't mind to tell her that, I am sure she will be more then happy to guide you to the magical world of sex. and really this will cost you NOTHING

I have a wife(with kids) /girlfriend, I love her but I don't feel attracted to her anymore?
This doesn't mean you have to go pay girls or whatever you are planning to do, if you do really love her you should tell her that you want something new, you could even start a chat with her to tell what you want. For example: some sexy clothing, roleplaying ,play with toys,... If you're girlfriend is open minded she might even suggest for a 3p with her friend ... She just didn't tell you because she won't know how you would react Just try anything before you go into this hobby. Because once you come to this side of the world, you won't be going back!

My advice for newbies that haven't done mongering, think before you act!

I am single and don't care about social life, should I go monger?
Well nothing is stopping you for monger in my way of thinking. But you should always keep track of how much you spend so you don't go bankrupt before you know it. This hobby isn't cheap!!

And what if the SO is pregnant? I tell u,its very hard to stay without sex for 6 or so months.( which I m already doing )

Well I heard having sex will speed up the process otherwis, tell her to give you an BBBJ or HJ

I think you're really understating things on the "Advantages" side of the coin.

"Your needs will be met?"  That's it?  Sounds like you're merely getting a minimal caloric output.

How about:

1.  Your most bizarre sexual fantasies will be fulfilled beyond your wildest expectations, or
2.  You will be able to fuck yourself into complete and total satiation, or
3.  You can cum on her face, or
4.  You can cum on her tits, or
5.  You can cum in her mouth, or
6.  You can fuck her in the ass, or
7.  You can fuck an unlimited number of complete strangers in an order you choose, in any hole you choose all inone day! or
8.  It's healthy to exercise the prostate daily, keeps the cancer away or
9.  You're only as old as the girl you sleep with: stick with 20 year olds!
10. You can learn a thing or two to teach the wifey and really turn her wild, or
11.  You can fuck at least one kind of girl from every ethnicity on the PLANET! or,
12.  You can fuck at least one kind of girl from every ethnicity on the PLANET IN THE ASS!!

Or you could  ask your wife to do it all for you  

at your 10#  i would like to add you could find it in kamasutra

[ Last edited by  bentley007 at 19-7-2011 13:56 ]

No, not true!  That's just a book!  One needs experience to do these things well!

Haha :p i will keep saying practice more with your wife !!!

There are things wives won't do.  Even if asked.  

I can walk into a bank and ask for all the money...doesn't mean I'm going to get it.

If they did give me the money however, I'd use it to do more mongering though ;)

you need skill to ask you wive to do dirty things   But i won't argue since I am no saint either

True, but she's much better at getting her way than I am.  I've tried do get her to do many things...I love her but that extra nookie is too much fun.

you can have sex when a women is pregnant. in fact, its rather wild

i believe 007's motive behind this thread is to educate and perhaps point out the risks involved in this hobby
however, doesn't mean that everyone cannot have fun... lol...

to monger or not to monger
mongering brothers will surely agree that everyone have their reasons for such activities
- conquering wildest / ultimate fantasies
- fear of consequences sharing such perverted acts with loved ones
- another outlet to vent stress without bringing home such frustration
- pure excitement etc...

whatever the reason, the anonymity in this community helps fellow bro's to escape reality and share experiences / notes
whereas under circumstances would never share this would perhaps their closest friends and especially their loved ones
i know for a fact, i would never repeat my indiscretions with my oldest friends fearing their judgements

i still believe, despite all warnings or attempts to persuade otherwise would of changed my mind
mongering is still cheaper than previous SO / relationships that i've ever had
perhaps i've just haven't met the one who's deserving?

I think you forget some cases like :
- I'm single and a shitload of kilometers away from my main social life
- I'm single and on a work trip
- I'm in a couple and we have got an agreement (ok this one is more of a fantasm ... not mine but anyway, that happens)

And the fact that this is totaly different from the relations you have with your girlfriend/wife.
You don't look for the same things, at all.

I'm speaking about my case, I have just done only two walks up, but the fun for me is going into a place I don't know, like a child who knows he's doing something ''bad'' and people in the street don't know that ... it's not even the sex (ok I might definitely be too newby to compare on that point, but still the idea is there).
It's also because I come from a country where going to the WG is not the norm, it's not common. So I wanted to discover that, because I wanted to discover that by myself, in a way not to die stupid (not sure if that expression makes sense in english ...).

But yeah, it's expensive. I'm happy in a way because I know I'm not staying eternaly in HK so I will be off before bankruptcy.

And for the chances of getting diseases, the only girl who wanted to do uncovered sex with me lightly was an american girlfriend here, not a chinese WG ...

But anyway yeah, of course it would be stupid to ruin a healthy relation because of mongering.
Luckily I'm not concerned

i would say monger as a hobby is also quite risky as you may unluckily be infected by different types of STD.

Majority of or wives or SO, will NOT do many things done by working girls.  Majority will NOT do many things done in a sauna, like ass rimming, bbbj, cum in face, month, S&M etc.  Wives will think you are sick and a pervert. In a sauna men are treated like Kings. Most will want you to jack off alone.

Cons: STD and you wife or SO finding out.

Men, by human nature, have wandering eyes. To tie a man down to a single woman is like going against nature. Going against evolution. Going against Darwin.

The muslims and mormons got it right.

I have a buddy who's wife would only do anal with him if he paid her. turns out they both ended up really getting off on it (the anal and the paying) and his wife loved the extra shopping money.  What a healthy couple of pervs.

I will be honest this is good advice. It makes you think twice. But one aspect that noone has covered yet is that of morality. It is a Sin, and if you do not realize it you will go to hell, right?

Bro bentley007, after all your reviews in HK and belgium etc, you get such acceptable rating in this forum and you want to give advice to us bros not to monger? wtf? ..Are you just trying to keep all the girls to yourself???

WHOA. Paying a wife for sex! What's the going rate for anal? I may use this bargaining tactic too, but if it'll cost me a LV bag each time, I'd rather spend it on a WG.

IIRC it was $500, but of course it was BB Anal!