Was just reading the "WG smell, SO suspicious" thread, and thought about how difficult
our hobby becomes with wife and child.

Obviously consorting with prostitutes has long been an accepted tradition
among Asian businessmen.  Second wives and mistresses are common, and mongering
is particularly easy given how travel-oriented Asian business is.

But I always read of the lengths bro's will got to to hide their extracurricular activities,
and I have to wonder... did they get married young, and then later on find out about the
easy and wonderful world of Asian whores?

I knew since my teenage years that I wanted to fuck a lot of women, and that marriage
was not for me.  I was fortunate enough to discover Macau in my mid-twenties, and
it's been smooth sailing since.  I fully understand the practical benefits of a wife.  Having one will
prevent friends and family from thinking you're a monger; she functions as an aide-de-camp;
and probably most importantly, if you want kids, well, you'll need a wife to give birth to them.

But my sense from the boards is that you guys like fucking young things... a lot... and the "ball and chain" is just that,
a serious hindrance to your seed-spreading.  Did you married guys just get married too early?

my wife doesnt BBBJ me

i get sex when she feels like, not me

6 out of 10 times i sneak to my computer 2 in the morning to play with myself....afraid she finds out i am pleasuring myself

gee, feel sorry for you cherryhunter.  you should definitely go punt more.

I discovered punting in my early 20's when I started to make my own money and still in enjoy it. I'm in my mid 30's now. I married in my early 30's because I wanted to start a family and I love children and wanted my own kids. But this didn't stop me from punting. Everyone has fantasy's and I go out hunting purely based on what I get from paying for it and not at home. I love CIM and the misses refuses to give it. I love sex and the misses doesn't always give it. The best part of being with a WG is the cheekiness and playfulness that doesn't exist at home.

Lucky for me I travel alot with my job and this gives me to opportunity to explore. Out of all the places I've been to I still find Dongguan and Macau to be my favourites.

So yeah, I don't think I got married too early. One of my good mates dad still go out mongering and he's in his 50's and he's been doing it for over 30 years. To me, its just a hobby that no one can know about. I love my family to death and if they ever find out, I'm screwed.

I'm in the WAY TOO early category.    Dunno what the fuck I was thinking.  My SO was super hot, that's all I was thinking.  Now I'm somewhat in Cherry Hunter's category.

On my birthday I get birthday sex, yay, but other than that, I have no idea when I'll get sex again.  I don't get BJ's anymore either, can't remember when I got one from the SO, it was a long time ago.  Sex can also bit a bit boring, not passionate like the old days.    Contemplated a GF but that's too much work, that's like adding another wife to an already busy life with work, wife, kids.    FB is not easy to find.  SO is a good partner, very close friend, but like a FRIEND with OCCASIONAL benefits.

One day I was in my mid 30's and realized I've hardly tried any kind of pussy because I got married in my early 20's, and realized I wanted to try every type of pussy out there.  I felt like I missed out on my mongering years as a young adult.  


WG seems like the perfect answer.  Although at this point I've only done the massage stuff with a couple extras.

Does the wife become unattractive if you compare to WG's? Some of the bro's here mention that the wife only give sex now and then so that why they do WG's. But i think the real problem for married bro's who also visit WG's is when the wife wants to do, you will not be able to perform as your good friend Mr Dick has his own mind now.

Like De'Niro quoted in 'Analyse this'
Perhaps its the thought that your wife is the mother of your children
They are no longer seen as sexual objects and or lost the sexual appeal?

Nah, I've been with my SO a long, long time, but she still makes me cum faster than any WG!  I have to really concentrate to hold it back, but with most WG I can go for ever until I choose to let go.  There is something extra when love is there....  Getting her off gets me off big time!  Plus, having someone who "has your back" 24/7 no matter what, and she know you have her back aswell is, well..., special.  From my posts you might think I monger constantly, and yes, I am very active.., but the fact is 90% of my free time is with her and family.  And it's beyond "nice", I couldn't imagine coming home to an empty flat!  

That said, I simply want it waaay more than she does.  Life is too short not indulge in its finest creation:  sex!!  Aint no way I'm going out without getting A LOT!!

[ Last edited by  wander at 10-5-2011 11:47 ]

Interesting question.  If she gets into it, yeah I'm into it, it can be awesome.  I never even used to turn my head at another girl until the last couple years.  But now she's hardly ever into it, on the rare occasion she is willing it is like a mercy or pity fuck.

She is still hot but when I know it's at most a pity fuck it's not a real turn on and the nagging shit and what not throws acurve ball unto the sex appeal.  I'm not blind I still know she is hot, but....the occasional boring pity sex doesn't do it for me anymore.   

I think that's another thing, I really want a super hot chick, it's difficult internally to justify paying aWG if she's not at least as hot as what I have at home.  But it's weird to compare, the SO is a close partner, while the WG I'm just looking for some fun excitement and release.

I agree with you bro, my SO is fantastic - and she wants it as often as I do, which is a great thing.

I guess most of the posts have been quite cynical, and predicted bcos of the nature of this board but when you do find a SO who you love, and TRULY love then that is one of the best feelings you can have.

Honestly is not whether we got married to early or not, but more towards "what is out there?" Some times the wife doesn't feel like doin it and you know, we guys are always horny fuck! hahaha.

My Gf and i have plenty of sex, we experiment and stuff, but i still go out and punt. There is nothing like paying for sex. What i love about punting is not the actual sex but the expectation. Like, walking up to the hotel, wondering what she will look like. Anticipation...yup...that is the word i am looking for.  That is the thrill that is missing from your GF or SO! With GF and SO, if we dont keep the passion alive or the sense of excitement, sex will slowly but surely become boring. Having sex will be just for the sake of having sex! MInd you i love to have sex, but wouldn't it be better if it is fun and exciting?

Definitely not a matter of getting married too young, but just that men are sex-addicted creatures. Monogamy isn't exactly in all of our DNA's, and the development of the internet, and realization that there are so many sex addicted creatures only fuels our desire to find more vaginas to conquer.

Agreed.  We seperate sex and love.  And some women, but far too few, do as well.

Sex is the best drug out there.  Sex with "love" added to the mix is even better (when she's in a passionate mood).  Sex with "love" to the mix can also  be worse (if you feel, as some have posted) that's it routine or even a "pity" or "duty" fuck.  That is ego-crushing!

Ahhh, women and relationships....., most complex things in the universe!

[ Last edited by  wander at 10-5-2011 11:58 ]

This is an interesting post because unlike you guys, I get everything I want from my SO and more than I can handle...

Though I'm in my late 20's and not married, I have a smoking hot gf who makes guys drool just by walking past them. She loves BBBJ, she loves anal, she loves my LB and will do anything to get it.

But... I still punt.

Why? I really don't know how to answer that but I enjoy the adventure of knocking on that door and seeing who's behind it. I enjoy the different types of LS I will be entering. I enjoy the A cups all the way to F cups.

I guess I can say I love women and not woman.

Bro you hold on to that girlfriend and make sure you never let go!

i'm with xavierkk, hold on to her with your dear life

i've been dating on and off still trying to find my ideal girl for life...

sad to say, i'm still looking...

It'll come, it'll come. Enjoy the punting during your single life though, as once you're married, you have to start worrying about a whole lot of other things (smell for one) when it comes to punting.

When it comes to the crunch it's all about genetics: guys DNA is all about survival of his species thus needs to impregnate as many females as possible.
I'm normally a very rational guy but even so I get my head twisted the other way when a damn gorgeous girl walks by, and also feel the nervous apprehension of what the WG is really going to be like. There maybe some bros who did get married early and never tasted other women. It could even be just sheer monotony of the same woman, in the same bed, in the same position, with the same outcome. But by and large I think it's simply genetically we are now just following our hard-coded programming and need to plant our seeds anywhere we can without even thinking about it. And weget "rewarded" by experiencing some moaners, some screamers, some prostate massagers, some really acrobatic positions and some wonderful body shapes we just long to admire.

Fuck, I need to punt again soon! :p

[ Last edited by  mcmafia09 at 12-5-2011 10:44 ]

that's a bit of an over-simplification

In my case - and I think in many others also - getting married was "the best thing in my life" at the time it happened, and for quite a long while afterwards also ...
and no, I didn't marry early ...

But things change, and you have to keep a flexible mind in order to respond to the new challenges you face each day.  
When you look closely you realise that punting actually keeps a lot of marriages together ... and it becomes even harder to join the puritanical brigade in condemning it, or even feel the slightest bit guilty about P4P.  

Interesting factoid:-  it is only relatively recently in Human History, as a result of advances in medical science and hygiene, that marriages last longer than about 10 years on average.  
Diseases and infections
Lack of contraception,
compounded by complications in childbirth
Violence and conflicts
... and the surviving partner had the opportunity to start over ... for thousands of years, right up to the last century or so ... truth is most marriages were short term temporary things.  

Furthermore if you look at how marriage is handled in different cultures, you quickly see that even the concept of "till death do us part" is itself more closely related to a Judaeo-Christian heritage than it is to do with fundamental human needs.  

By contrast these days an unbroken marriage can easily have to last 20 / 30 / even 40 years ... and aside from a few who get lucky with their choices, we're simply not equipped either socially or mentally for the challenge of upholding antiquated and outdated marriage structures.  

Unless you live in France, where you can sign a "Certificat de Concubinage" and live as a married couple for a fixed term of two or three years.

imho, i personally believe marriage is a secret passage where you share the path of life with a loved one
where this relationship is tested through trials and tribulations to stand the test of time

i see punting as a short term relief before finding the right one...
plus the extra curricular activities with a WG is perhaps, in most cases, not an act you would practice with your loved one
remember, this is the mother of your child(ren) who uses the same lips to kiss them good night ;)
...lol...