Well I don't know how Wander does it, but when I'm going destination punting, I tend to send my wife off on her own little vacation in Europe or North America, anywhere where there's a significant time zone difference, which means that I wouldn't be expected to check in with her every night. That's how I get away, definitely not Wander's style, because that's just plain baller.

Hmm, what did that trip cost?  I am afraid to tally it up!  Yes, I was in the Philippines, and this made it cheaper, but it was NOT cheap.  I think the boat+captain worked out to about HK$5000 or thereabouts.  The girls where extra (hehe) but we agreed that I would only pay each the regular 1 nite over-nite price even though we spent close to 36 hours together.  It was a treat for them too, and they saw it that way.

And yes, I travel for work extensively, and have for 20 years or so (that is, my SO is used to it and doesn't even wonder which country I am in half the time).  If opening a new office may have to spend a fair bit of time at a site.  Add a day or two before/after every blue-moon for something like this and I suppose my job/lifestyle is tailor-made for someone who wants to play.    And play I do...

So we're saying HKD5000 for boats, food and drinks, then 3 WG's at probably 1500 per, so that works out to around HKD10,000 for 36 hours of bliss and fantasy fulfillment. I'm flying down to Philippines!

That's certainly cheaper than a weekend away with a pornstar in Las Vegas like bro DaBestHK did.

Yes, definitely the life of a frequent flyer has its benefits, aside from just status on the airlines, but ability to punt guilt free because it ain't cheating if it's in a different area code!

when i am in CP, i never kno where to eat since i cant read chinese
so after ktv, i usually offer to take the chicks out for food
but i have them suggest places since i have no idea where to go
so it works out for both of us, she gets a free meal
i gain knowledge in another grubbing spot

damn! 10k HKD for 36hrs of fun is not ok for me. i am definitely not at that level yet.

why cant we be born old and poor then earn money as we get younger so we can enjoy both money and youth at the same time?

Yeah...I think I'll have to work that one out.  Definitely one for the bucket list!

the price wont even matter
if u can afford to go to cp
u can afford the food

Maybe you are thinking about it wrong.  

I have rented other boats before to go fishing with mates or taking my gang for a great swimming day - and paid the same or more.  This was a fun exploration-adventure BEFORE you even add the WGs to the mix.

Now.., to complete the scene, remove family; insert 3 beautiful, sexy, and greatful young hookers.  (PS:  who look STUNNING in their bikinis!!!  OMG, watching them prance about the boat was hardon-inducing all by itself, even before they got topless).

So....   If you dont spend your money on enjoying this life.., then what DO you spend it on?  Another TV set?  Another IPad?  Retirement?  Shit, I wont have the energy to do this shit when I retire!  I dont plan to miss these moments...

Greedy?   Guilty as charged.

This thread has exceeded all my wildest imagination (and created a few new ones).  I started the thread to see if anyone had simply enjoyed the company of a WG before "hitting it".

This has evolved into another thing entirely.

What other sort of creative additions to the WG/John relationship can we throw in there?



Thanks guys!

i agree, except im not gonna be renting boats, haha
when i go to CP, i dont worry about cash
gotta enjoy yourself
esp me, since my time there is always limited

I've done this before, but it was with high end girls. In fact, they tell me that it is the norm. Their clients would take them out for a date before the sex. For me, it's nicer asit feels more like a girlfriend experience. But I has to be the right kind of girl. Not sure I'd want to do this the firs time too, as you don't know if you are compatible. If you meet a girl that you would feel comfortable being seen with, ask her.  Given the right amount of money, I'm sure she would be in for it.

hmm if there is one thing i spend more money on than mongering, its food! but then again, i really dont spend that much on both since everything in the philippines is cheap.

i guess im just not ready yet to spend so much on punting. (i am slowly getting there though you guys are bad influences!) plus, we dont have kids yet so thats another factor i need to consider as far as spending money is concerned.

thats rite !!
enjoy that cash b4 the kids end up being your priority

Yes. I've had dinner before AND after- the after case the lady was new in my home town, we did the deed, she said "hey, I'm hungry, want to grab a bite?", and I said "sure", we hit a Thai place and chatted over dinner. Didn't pay for extra time on that, just for dinner (and the cost was quite modest).

My take is that if you don't ASSUME you'll get freebies and expect that you will have to pay for the time you'll often get nice surprises.

hmm you really shouldnt pay her extra for taking her to dinner... unless shes some model or celebrity who you have to pay by the hour for her time. she should appreciate the face that youre spending extra money to feed her! unless again, she has another client waiting for her.

If a gal expects me to pay to take her to dinner, or a movie, or the mall then it AINT gonna happen.  

Unless she's "synced" with you in some kinda personal way then what's the point?!?   Walk around with hooker?  No.., I walk around with girlfriend.  A temporary one, yes, but at these moments we ARE BF/GF.

A big difference - she is choosing to spend her free time with you.  And vice-versa.  And (hopefully) you are making it a pleasure for her.

Right. But guys often expect that they can get extended dates gratis, and, well, sometimes the gal doesn't WANT dinner or whatever. They want their own life, or more money.

Time is money for these women, so don't expect free time any more than you expect free money. Sometimes you get it, but don't expect it. All you should expect is the time you paid for in bed.

True.., you can never EXPECT anything, but.............  It's an easy thing to work out.

Walk-up girls:  They work during the day and evening.  A dinner with you would  cost them much income during their two-week Visa period.  You better be a fucking Romeo to get them to go with you (and convince their manager).  Ummmm, not likely to happen.  They DO have days off, however, (they need it!) so if you really click with a gal find out her day off and take her somewhere (the Aviary in Hong Kong Park is an great little getaway).

Hotel Girls.  Same/Same.  They are on call and in town for a short period of time trying earn what they can while they are here.  Again, ask about her day off if you really click with one.

WanChai Bargirls.  Ahhhhhhhhh.  (Yeah, I KNOW I am a broken record!).  They are FREE all day, every day.  They work nites only.  On their own schedule.  Meet one in a bar, have fun, wake the next day (screw again) with her then ordering breakfast for you, screw again after the bacon is gone..., then....  Well, depends on you and the gal!  Sleep in late for a bit, hit a movie and buy her a scarf at the mall on the way out, an early dinner to recharge on steak and wine, tell her to sms her friends to meet in some club and NITE TWO begins!!   

What happens next....  Up to you.

off topic but i know people who to save time bring their takeout to the brothels to eat before the deed.

how bout girls who ask bros out to go clubbing? ive had a few WGs ask me to go with them on their birthdays or clubbing with friends etc. probably bec i treat them nice and im such a dashing gentleman.

lol!

but its a nice feeling having these girls ask you out instead right? (even if you know they expect you to pay for everything haha)