Met a girl in Neptunes, have had her over a couple of times. First time was around 5am, we passed out in my bed together. Next time she stayed a few hours. Anyhow, sent a few flirty texts back and forth on whatsapp (why not?) and she asked for a pic of me... I'm not really sure what she could do, but a girl I met online in New York once tried to blackmail me - so I am a bit wary.

Anyone ever keep in touch with a girl from Neptune and had something like this happen?

!!NEVER!!

always kept all transaction mutual
unless you want more out of it, then no
the consequences are to dire
this is of course personal preference

Dude...never ever give your photo away. There can be no upside to it.

I see nothing good that can come out of that scenario. Unless of course.... You want to start an actual relationship......what....? Crayzyniss! Haha....

~UD

Like what the other posters have said, theirs absolutely NO upside in giving your photo away but theirs a huge downside...don't do it bro

Dont, just dont give your picture away! You can send her a pic of LB (if he is not recognizable! ) but your face, what were you thinking. Anyway, you may be lucky and she just doesnt care but you should be careful with this, its just too much risk for nothing IMHO

Edit: btw, what is her name, maybe some bros know her (been with a few there) and can tell you what kind of girl she is.

[ Last edited by  Frenchexpat at 30-3-2012 08:48 ]

just give her a publicly obtainable photo of you.
e.g. your facebook profile photo.

there's nothing much for her to blackmail you..
after all, anyone can access your facebook profile pic.

Even that is unnecessarily dangerous - there are tols that you can use to trace back info from a picture. If she has a pic of you from FB, it's rather easy to find you on FB using a few search tools that recognize images... and then she can start digging.

Don't give them *any* info that can start them off on a search. No good at all can come from a girl having any info on you at all. All info leads t more info, and sooner or later, she'll have enough info to be trouble if she chooses to be.

- Fake name
- fake job
- fake hometown
- punter phone
- punter email
- no pictures
- never bring her home.

Them's the rules. Stick to them.

EDIT: Additionally, be extra careful of business cards. I knew someone who got a simple incall veggie massage from a girl who managed to find one of his business cards (maybe while he was in the bathroom or shower), and that started a whole world of pain for him. he was calling his work, leaving messages for him and ended up shaking him down for some serious money. It was really terrible.

You can't be too careful. Most WGs are just there to make some quick money, and will forget you 10 minutes after you leave, and are no danger at all. But it only takes one crazy manipulative person to really shake up a world of trouble.

[ Last edited by  Intenseslacker at 30-3-2012 14:41 ]