As rockypop has informed you, please read the "getting started" section for information about this forum as well as answers to your specific questions. You will be surprised how many of your questions have been answered. I see that this is your first post to the forum. Congratulations on at least posting it in the right section. Just to make it even easier for you, here is a link to the FAQs of the forum.
http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... &extra=page%3D1