Hello everyone, this is my first post here, although I have been lurking for the past hours and reading a bunch of threads

I am going to HK sometime soon and I don't want to go as far as to contact hotel girls, but would like to experiment ("break in," I'm a virgin ). Based on some of the advice on this site it seems wise to first visit happy ending massage places/saunas to get started. With these places I have a few questions.

1) Upon research I've chanced upon places like Serenity, Good Fortune Sauna, K Pressure and 37 Dundas (although I know this latter two are a bit on the heavier side). Which would you advise is the most newbie friendly if any?
2) Do the girls let you touch/kiss them a lot? Many reviews suggest yes, others not so much.
3) Is there some kind of taboo when the people running the places see a relatively young guy? I'm over 20 but look 18. Still trying to wrap my head around being served by someone potentially 10 years older.

Also, I don't speak Cantonese and have really bad Mandarin. Thank you for all your help

[ Last edited by  haunted at 17-8-2016 03:03 ]

You should be fine with the age. I think their issue is generally an assumption that younger guys have less money. But you can certainly show them otherwise and it won't be an issue.  
As far as what you can do with the girl?  It really ranges from not so much to everything.  It depends on the girl and your chemistry.  Just give it a shot.  Give a small kiss see how it goes.  Touch her lightly. See her reaction.  Take it step by step.  Just be respectful of her limits and you can't go wrong.  

I'm sure you won't have an issue.

first you need to know what the difference between a walk up massage place, a brothel and a real sauna is

k pressure and 37 D are brothels, i don't recommend you to go there for your first time. dingy places where you sit in a room and the keepers introduce and let you choose any girl that's available in their vicinity at that time, then you need to go to rent a room nearby to do your deed

Serenity, kama, reiki are all walk up massage places, they are small with only a few rooms, the ones I just mentioned caters to gwailos so communication will not be too much of a problem - at least with the manageress.
the one area where it could be off putting is when your girl tries to get you to tip more if she thinks she can get away with it
these 3 places and as in most walk up massage places it is HJ only

Real saunas all have communal shower facilities, locker for your clothes and a rest area where you can eat and drink before and after your deed ... some saunas are HJ only, while others are HJ or FS your choice - you tell the manager/manageress after she explains the pricing structure what you want
communication will not be as good as the 3 walk up places mentioned above but still should not be a problem
the one thing good about the saunas is the price is set, no tipping necessary except for the locker guy ($20)
[BTW good fortune sauna closed years ago, now they changed to BSS]

If you are looking for younger girls maybe, just maybe the walk up places have slightly younger ones then the saunas places, but as you already know 95% of the girls you'll meet in this industry will be older then you


May I suggest that if its really your first time, do it with a girl friend rather then having to pay for it ?

hope this helps


[ Last edited by  twiceAweek at 17-8-2016 12:04 ]

Very good advice from twice, especially his last point. There's nothing like the fumbling, emotion-drenched high of a first time with someone who's attracted to you, especially if she, too, is a virgin.

If you're dead set on busting your cherry with a pro, you'll find that most of those in HK are from the mainland, so a little bit of Mandarin goes a long way at putting them at ease, which means friendlier service.

No need to be too nervous. It's just a job for them, and their job is to make you happy. Smile a lot, allow yourself to be a little goofy and awkward, and if you can make them laugh and not feel threatened, many will respond well. Remember, they're girls/women first, so treat them with respect and politeness like any other human being.

If you want a girl in her early to mid-20s, check out the "spa" listings in Tsim Sha Tsui. Many have pics of their stable and updates on who's working on any particular day, so you can make a list of the ones that catch your eye and ask to see them once you get there.

For a $200 tip in the TST places, you should get an HJ and the girl will allow you to feel her up. How far you get depends on your charm and technique. Most women prefer a gentle man with slow hands to begin with. Most will let you fumble with their breasts inside the bra, and for your first time, that might be all it takes.

Some will unleash their boobs or allow you to rub their crotch over their panties for no extra charge; others may ask for a higher tip. No need to pay more than $300 in tips, in most cases. I have paid that much only once, and the girl was stark naked and volunteered to perform sumata (look it up). It wasn't our first session, though.

Good luck, and be sure to report, no matter how it turns out.

Everything Twice said is true except for two points. Kama, unlike Serenity and Reiki, doesn't expect any tipping. Their website states this point very clearly and my numerous visits there confirm this. Instead of awkward negotiations which may be demoralising for a virgin, they have an ingenious system in which you go to different rooms (which have different rates) for different levels of deeds. All very clearly stated and there is even a menu that explains everything.
Another minor point: Reiki has just changed its management and the new manager has no English at all.

I thought there were a couple of reports on kama where the girls asked for more ? … but agree most reports have said they had set price

Thanks a lot for the great advice everybody

As another question, do they appreciate it if you shave? Haha.

[ Last edited by  haunted at 17-8-2016 23:23 ]