So I get to know this working girl.  I've known her since a couple years back.  I've seen her a total of probably 10 times.  So I'm real nice to her and vice versa.  Every successive time, she's been giving me a better reason to visit her.  Came first with a massage that lasted 90 min. This is no orgre, so it doesn't happen often for a good-looking chick give a dude 90 min. of her time.  then she gives me a discount of slashing $100 off the price.  Then she's been giving me DFK.  Next up, she's let's me eat her from down-below.  Last couple of times, she gave me a BBBJ upon my request.

OK, so here is where it goes kinda crazy.  Last time she climbs on top of me while DF-Kissing, my bro touches her pussy.  I felt that was just hot stuff.  So I tease her a little and kinda poke her front door. was expecting her to flitch and pull back, but to my surprise, she plays along with it? She even goes ahead and sticks half the the head inside. I try to push further and she does not resist and enjoys it.  BUT, the fact is I never chose to penetrate her fully.  Just the teasing for a good 2 hours.  hugging, kissing, eating out, rubbing of genitals and penetration with rubber.

  So I've been joking to that she should come over to my place and check out my pad. she agrees to come over this week.  I call her tonight and she says that she can't do it tonight cause she's meeting friends.  So i tell her that she owes me.  Was expecting a few words like i'll take good care of you or spend more time with me, etc.  But she goes on to say that she will let me do her bare-back!!!  I've had this offer before, but never inclined to it.  I asked her if she was scared and she tells me she trusts me after all these years.  She says I'm a good guy and not the type who goes around.  I said, ok... but aren't you afraid of beng pregant?  She tells me she knows how to calculate dates based on her period and ovulation. She tells me her period is on the 15th or so. So she tells me that the next time I come over or when she comes over (she tells me that she will come over to stay over at my place on Saturday this coming week), she will let me do her without a condom.

So what's the catch here?  I mean, she's exposing herself to alot of risk?  Is she trying to get herself pregnant and making me pay for her life?  Or does she really like me to the point she wants the ultimate experience from the 'sexysax'?  <--yes, I can be naive sometimes!

Any opinions or thoughts would be much appreciated!

Sometimes I do not understand what these girls are thinking. Perhaps its the lack of STD knowledge.

But you yourself said that she is a WG. My opinion, no matter how close you are to her, don't go BB with her. The way I think it, is if she is willing to go BB with you, then the possibility is high that she is willing to go back with someone else. Even if you trust her, do you trust the other guy?

Don't do it! Don't take the chance.

More than likely, she is probably on birth control.

The real question is, what do you want out of this?

Looks too fishy to me. It sound like she wanted someone in her life or maybe just a cash machine. Be careful!

Bro, if you want the sensation of it, just buy the thinnest most reliable condom out there - Okamoto's or whatever, but dont go BB

ALWAYS use protection with WG's, for both of your sakes

I dont think this is overly complicated, Bro.  Just like us, girls think BB sex feels MUCH better than covered.  Latex inside them isnt as nice as flesh.  After all your times together she likes you and trusts you.  Foolish, no doubt, but happens a lot.

So, dont do it..., but I bet it is little more than just that.

thanks for the advice.  well appreciated.

i've been with two WG's as gf's so this will not be the first time for me. was real lucky to not catch anything since I find out that alot of these girls are more hygenic than we think despite their dirty little rooms.

  I guess only time can tell...

IMHO - this is how these things work.

Whilst she may genuinely like you to a certain extent, she also has a lot more to gain from going bare-back than you. Apart from the STD quotient, you need to understand that in her mind, 2 scenarios unfolds - that you ARE going to be smitten by her (especially with your history of having had WG's as a GF), where it will be "easier street" for her - or else, you are just screwing her/taking advantage of her being emotionally involved w/you.

And in the second case, she would have a fall-back position to then cry "pregnancy" - and it really doesn't matter if she is pregnant or not; and if she was pregnant, who she actually got pregnant by! But she now has the power to milk you for all the "good guy" that you are.  She'd be claiming at least the abortion pill/operation fee, time she needs to recuperate and not working, and of course whatever it is that a good guy would pay to 'do the right thing!"

Its a sucker's play bro - don't fall for it.

Just my POV

SEAJ

Why torture yourself. It's a possible setup. Even if shedding get pregnant she might still say she is to milk some money for abortion. Even if you don't cum in her, the risk is still there.
Secondly, do u want to expose yourself to possible STD?
Thirdly, so why do you want to do it knowing the risk?

This sounds like an episode of Jerry springer.

Maybe she is already pregnant and needs to find someone to father the child.

Hopefully I won't see a thread 9 months from now sexysax asking where to go for DNA testing.


For myself it's never a matter of how much she trusts you but rather how much you trust her. If she's offering bbfs to you then she's offered it to others.

You know there is total truth in what SEAj writes.

Not that long ago a WG-regular of mine suggested we go BB and during the conversation that followed said, "but I WANT your baby.., we would make a beautiful baby!".  She said this laughing, but I asked her what she would if I got her pregnant.  Her answer "go home to the Philippines and wait for you to join our family".  

Spooky!!  

But our brains are wired to react to such an offer - you can't help but be flattered and ego-boosted even though you KNOW you are just a lottery ticket to her.  The urge to BB and CIP grew - but no bloody way!  I resisted and became wary of her ever since.

PS:  I respected that she was honest with me about it all, mind you.  Did attempt any trick at all.

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Like all the brothers said, don't do it. Just think of it this way, if you go BB with her, you will be think about it for days or weeks, agonizing whether you caught something or not, then you probably want to check it out by a doctor. Worse, if you want SO, you will put them at risk as well. Be SAFE.

perhaps she's trying to leave the profession for good and looking to settle down. asian guys would prolly think twice about dating her but i guess gweilo's are more liberal about marrying a WG.

whatever her motive is, don't take chances going WITHOUT. nicely put by moming in #12 - you don't wanna ponder for days or weeks if you've caught anything or possibly transmitting something not desirable to your SO, do you?

She likes you and it sounds like she is considering you as a possible BF.   She would go BB with her BF.  Or she's trying to give you a GFE by BB.

I don't think it's a trick.  Regardless don't do it.  It's not safe.

she is a WG as a profession.  Its high risk to begin with.  Is that one session of fun worth the risk of months of waiting for various test results?

how many people are nice to you at your work?  Imagine the BB offers she may give out to all the nice guys?  You never know

Don't think there's any catch, except for the possible expectation from her that things might develop beyond the WG/client relationship. The only girls I've had ask me for BBFS were definitely angling for something more.

Just be most concerned about the STD risks, for you and her (if you haven't had yourself checked recently). The last time I had an accident (breakage), and popped CIP, I was somewhat freaked out - the girl didn't seem to care at all, which was a bit disturbing to see.

She's a lonely girl who wants some BFE, and (for some inexplicable reason) has picked you as The One.  Sounds like you're a guy who's open to GFE also.  

Up to you how you play ... but I'll share this food for thought ...

What will you do the day you get that SMS saying "Honey, I missed my period for 4 weeks, I'm pregnant"??  
Much better to consider that in advance, rather than just hope it doesn't happen.  (and WHEN it happens, PM me ...)

As for the rest - play safe (though you already busted that rule) - keep control of your cash and your time commitments - and enjoy yourself.  

Probability is it'll end in tears (yours or hers), but life is for living and romance can flourish in the most unlikely places.  Nobody ever died from a broken heart.

Bro, I think you have all the answers you need but one - don't try to get in her head, don't try to understand, just don't do it.

Her logic (or lack thereof) doesn't matter and you will never know what she was thinking anyway unless it goes really bad and you get truely fucked over both with your health or your money by this chick.

She may well be sincere but you are risking a lot for a few moments of pleasure.

Dont  let ur dick brain get the better of your head brain.. Slap urself, wake up!! u have too much to lose if go BB  with her. Always Wear protection..

Well I was writing up my personal story...and it was just too painful to tell...

Let me just say this. There was a WG. I thought she was really special. I thought she really liked me. I thought she wasn't greedy for the money.

One day she got pissed. I asked, is it because I didn't give her money? She said no.

A few days later, (she was working in HK for a week) I decided to be generous, gave her 4k to rent a better place to live. She said she would go back to China first, get the new flat sorted, and I could join her the next day (the next day being Friday).

So the next day when I was about to visit her, she said "don't come, I haven't rented the place yet, there is no vacancies for the moment but there should be one really soon, and I'm having my period".

And the following week when her period should have been over she said "don't come". I ask why? After much hesitation (pretended hesitation), she said, she owes her friends 4k of gambling debts. Her friend pays her out for not asking me for money. I can come if I help repay her debts, otherwise if I come her friends will force her to ask me for money....

After an argument it was clear that she was after my money after all. So then didn't look for her since then..

About 10 days later (2 weeks ago), she called me and asked how I was. I said I was fine. After a casual chat for 3 mins she said she doesn't know how but she's pregnant!!! I said well don't tell me - I haven't seen you since you had your period!!!  She hasn't called me again and I hope it stays that way.

So as to bro's question "where's the catch?" That's where it is! Take your heart and then take your money.