just wondering...if one constantly masturbates with lubricants...will it have any side effect on the penis? like skin disease or something? are lubricants safe?

also, is there a way to cum faster? i can't seem to cum when fucking or bj...

I just don't know what to say ... or how to answer your questions - keeping a straight face ...

1.   Just what type of lubricants do you use when you're jacking off ?  not some cleaning gel I hope !
      Different people are allergic to different things, if you're really worried you should get tested by a dermatologist !

2.   Cuming too fast or too slow is all in one's mind ... if you can't cum fast then you should go to D1 and do a 3P
      and get your moneys worth

If the lubricants are the KY type specifically meant for genital contact, then no, there's no problem as brand name products should be sterile.

Just how old are you bro?  I've never heard of a young guy being unable to cum when screwing a beautiful girl. Maybe a thinner dom might help. If you're an older guy, don't try to last too long. It sometimes happens that an older guy, if he prevents himself from cuming too many times, won't be able to cum at all and will eventually loose his erection. But if you're talking about a long-time lover, sounds like the girl really doesn't excite you.

Then again, you might want to go easy on the Jack Daniels, as too much hard liquor can also cause problems.

turning 24 soon ...i dont masturbate using lubricants...but recently some girls have been using it while giving me handjobs as i cannot finish in the pussy. just wondering if it could be masturbating too much on my own last time.

i thought one is only hard to cum when he's drunk...though i tend to drink alot i never screw girls when i'm drunk

Damn, you must be kidding, I always cum too fast, does that mean I am lucky?

How I wish I can be like jack_daniels!

Anyone know any medicine to make it harder to cum?

yes...cum once first...then try to cum again...

Hi bro,

I have the same problem and, providing the gal excites me, I can cum in 5 seconds flat if I want to. You just have to start
off nice and slow and keep your concentration. Learn what really excites you and stay away from it for the first 15 minutes.
I like to start with a lot of foreplay, BJ and CG because these don't usually make me cum. I stay away from Mish because this
makes me cum. After a while, the urge to cum recedes and then you can really start to enjoy the fuck. But concentration is
the key - it's all in the mind bro, forget about medicines.    

P.S. A few Jack Daniels before the deed would always improve the fuck for me.  

Cum first and come again seem to solve the problem temporarily, but it wont work when you get older, beside that the second cum is not as intense as the first one

well it seem like we all have the same problem ha?

Use Dures Perform ... make sure you put it on about 1 - 2 mins before BJ/ML !
Its expensive but really works !

Cuming too quickly is definitely a young guy thing - which is why JD's story sounds so odd to me; I mean really, who ever heard of a 23 yr-old guy who couldn't cum in a girl's pussy?! One of the better things about getting older is that you can screw for hours without cuming - at least with a girl your used to. The problem is these 45 min episodes with an incredibly sexy stranger.

i'm damn baffled as well..tell u wat...this afternoon i went for a hotel girl and i could not cum in 1 hr time frame. i'll write a report about that later...

Is this a recent problem? Sa Sa is a good looking girl. If a young guy can't cum after screwing her for an hour, something is definitely amiss somewhere - either up top or in the plumbing. I'd see a doctor if this lasts more than a few weeks. The whole biological point of sex is reproduction - the pleasure is just nature's way to get us to do what it wants - no ejaculation, no reproduction, so your bod is definitely not playing by the rules. I mean you're only 23 yrs old bro! What's going to happen when you start putting on the years?!

Well I had a chat with my doctor about it, he thought I was impotent and I nearly punched him in the face. I have the same difficulty , except with a few of the WG's.

So I went private and got a 2nd opinion, and a 3rd opinion.

Precis of $3000 equivilant of doctors advice, private doctors cost a fortune here.

Its just that over years and years you get used to your own touch, a woman's pussy isn't like a hand its not going to grip hard and WG's being WG's have been stretched out a bit.

Also your body can't move as fast as a hand.

He effectively said what some of the others here have said in that you have to lay off shooting airplanes for a while and if you feel the need to beat yourself off with a loose fairly open hand and not a tight grip.

By yourself there is also no psychological pressure to 'perform' while there is with somebody else, one of them said just lay off for 4-5 weeks , then go for it with anybody , the fact that you haven't had any for ages will make you shoot very quickly, and thus help remove your psychological block.

Dude, this is definitely a case of too much internet porn. You've spent so much 'quality time' jerking off to 2 dimensional images, that your dick doesn't know what's real. A pussy is, by definition, the perfect place for a dick. Millions of years of evolution have designed the puss to be Dick Heaven. If you've got to work your cock as if it's 50 bellow zero and it's either start a fire or die, then you've got a invalid on your hands there bro.

Wat tat ???  

Wat tat  ???

Do not jcak off in the shower , always use some porn man and some really sexy shit. Otherwise your just screwing up your mind and will be much harder when you really have a real sexy girl. The other thing is, when you have sex with a real woman. There are many other senses that should make you cum and cum much harder. Things like smell (if they have nice perfume, when pumping them hard you hear sounds of your waist slapping into theirs, you get to feel their skin and as they begin to kiss and suck you, you get a different feeling).

When you combine all those senses, it should be much more pleasurable and you should be easily able to come. Doing aeroplane shots with porn is just if you havn't had it for a while and need to shoot out. But if you do that as a daily routine in the shower, your going to get in problems later.

One other thing, some guy told me the more you jack off the more memory loss you are going to have. And this is somewhat true, when I was working in a pharmacy, he said he can see people in the eyes and can tell if they are consistently jacking it off. He said some residue of something is left in the eye which experts can tell. He was a chinese medical guy, not sure I believe him. But then I use to have awesome memory, when I did school. 10 years later I cant even remember the girls face after a few days.

Cheers.

You're right bro. Also affects the eyesight. You can always know when a guy's jacked
off too much cos he'll be wearing glasses or contacts.

Or was it the hearing that's affected; I forget.  

I've read that giving youself a BJ is good for you because it keeps the spine flexible.

Is there any medical proof about memory lost or eyesight problems from jacking off too much.   I can't seem to remember anything anymore....

OOPS...oh shit..I shot myself again...let me clean up this mess...now where'd I put the tissue?