Subject: Anyone used a dating website?
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Anyone used a dating website?

ive been looking at thaifriendly.com...
Both for looking for a non WG and a wg.

who's has success with these types of sites an where?
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Reply #1 camstuckey's post

not tried thaifriendly

but tried several others

with plenty of success

bottom line is: they are hard work, and the offerings are generally less satisfying than straight out P4P or the offerings on this site
you have to move VERY fast, and have something extra to offer (think owner of a successful mid-sized company, chateaux in France, or similar) to get the attention of the hottest numbers

but if you enjoy hunting more than catching, go for it

you will catch also, it'll just take you more effort than a fastfood takeout




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ECE APP. Google it, it's not on the android market. It's essentially 141 on app including a googlemap.
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I have had some success on.....

I have had some success on.....hongkongcupid.com....badoo.com.....Aff.com....tagged.com...Craigslist but most want LTR so be ready for the nagging if you shag around
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I would tend to be a bit skeptical and wary about trying to find a WG on those sites, especially in other countries.... might be LE...
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I've had success with AFF in the US.  A lot of those Asian dating sites are run by the same company and share the same database.  So if you join one of the more generic ones like AsianDating.com you are actually looking at the same girls as in some of the specialty ones like HongKongCupid.com.

You get nagged a lot by the Filipinos to send money, and there are a lot of scams in general.  I have met a few good women there, and it's interesting to compare different cultures.  The Cambodians, for example, are very strict and won't fool around at all online.  The Filipinos and Thai will.

Just keep in mind that unless you video chat, they are probably lying about their looks.  If they refuse or come up with a bunch of excuses, they are definitely lying.
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I tried Hong Kong Cupid once... didn't work out...  I sent numerous messages and a lot just never replied.  Some replied then you never hear from them again.

Maybe I  just have no game... Maybe I'm some kind of Charlie Brown

I would imagine those girls get 50 messages from 50 different guys a day.  And the men outnumber the girls 100 to 1.

P2P is definitely more efficient.
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Mongering through dating websites will probably never become popular in Hong Kong.  

First, most working girls are mainland Chinese who lack English and computer skills to interact on a dating site.

Second, Hong Kongers are known for being highly efficient and don't have time for dating websites.  Dating websites involve searching, chatting, negotiating, meeting, etc.  Too much work.  The locals want to just do the deed efficiently, which is why walkup 141s and brothels are so popular.

Hong Kong has such a large variety of in-person mongering that I'm not sure why they would wamt tp go online to do it.

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Post at 5-6-2012 13:32  Profile P.M. 
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by camstuckey at 5-6-2012 00:46
ive been looking at thaifriendly.com...
Both for looking for a non WG and a wg.

who's has success with these types of sites an where?

I've had good success with ThaiLoveLinks and ChineseLoveLinks...  But only for finding real GFs.  If you want a WG, I agree with other posters that you're better off sticking to sites like this...

There is a middle ground, however...  If what you want is a regular, low-key, WG transaction (not compensated dating, mods!), you could try one of the "Sugar Daddy" sites... I've had good success with each of the following in the US.  I don't know how extensively they've moved into Asia.

http://www.sugardaddyforme.com
http://sugardaddie.com/
http://www.seekingarrangement.com/

Have fun, CGP

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Post at 5-6-2012 15:29  Profile P.M. 
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Tried badoo, but the way it works is kind of complicated for a simple mind like me. There are definitely some wg on there, you can tell just by the pic and the background but dont want to end up in trouble in hk so havent pushed that much
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by DArtagnan at 5-6-2012 01:05
not tried thaifriendly

but tried several others

with plenty of success

bottom line is: they are hard work, and the offerings are generally less satisfying than straight out P4P or the offerings  ...

It is hard work, ive message at least 10 girls only 1 has replied.
Must not like my face hahah
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by mickyirish at 5-6-2012 07:47
I have had some success on.....hongkongcupid.com....badoo.com.....Aff.com....tagged.com...Craigslist but most want LTR so be ready for the nagging if you shag around

thats the problems i dont want to have to work my arse off and in end not get some action.
Although im just testing the waters, even post a real picture of myself.
Never know i just might find my soulmate
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by Caligynephiliac at 5-6-2012 13:32


I've had good success with ThaiLoveLinks and ChineseLoveLinks...  But only for finding real GFs.  If you want a WG, I agree with other posters that you're better off sticking to sites like this...

...

You have has real GFs from TLL.com? it's also a way of keeping myself company in a sence before my next mongering trip
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by camstuckey at 5-6-2012 22:32


You have has real GFs from TLL.com? it's also a way of keeping myself company in a sence before my next mongering trip

Yes.  I've been seeing one girl from TLL for over four years.  Who knows, someday, I might even make it a permanent thing...  Other women, Masters' degrees, professionals or own their own businesses.  I've met a lot of nice women on TLL...

Have fun, CGP
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by camstuckey at 5-6-2012 22:25
It is hard work, ive message at least 10 girls only 1 has replied.
Must not like my face hahah

If you're in sales or marketing, it is both great practice, and a tough wakeup call

you have to work on every aspect of your game
photo
profile
opening email
followup emails
the close

with a couple of intriguing exceptions, most online connections tend to move very quickly to offline, or die completely




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You just have to send something that's different from all the typical hellos and cheap pick up lines they get. However sometimes it's better to use a pick up line than a simple "you're cute" message. One I use often is:

Are your parents bakers? Cos you look like a cutie pie.

etc etc. They know it's a pick up line but they usually play along and give you a few laughs. First impressions are important.
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Reply #15 DArtagnan's post

thanks for the checklist, it'll be things i got to work on.
My good looks wont suffice
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QUOTE:
Originally posted by asurada00 at 6-6-2012 15:44
You just have to send something that's different from all the typical hellos and cheap pick up lines they get. However sometimes it's better to use a pick up line than a simple "you're cute" ...

I'll be using that line, hope it doesnt get lost in translation
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I tried Are You Interested in Facebook then Badoo and shagged some girls form both sites. You need to put some effort in, invite the girls for lunch etc but can be a lot of fun.
It seems to be particularly easy (for me) to get fil or indo girls as they are quite desperate. I met some for lunch and fucked them on the first date so it was good value for money. However you really have to consider that they may want to stick to you and can be difficult to get rid of them. An indo girl kept chasing me for over 6 months! OMG  
I am not handsome.
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Post at 15-6-2012 04:14  Profile P.M. 
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yea I used Asian friend finder and got some luck.

But holy shit was it a ton of work!
The feeling was great though - it was not a paying situation and she also tried to stick onto me later but it was not too bothersome since I live 90% of the year outside of china.

A lot of fun, but a lot of work - beware!
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