Great forum BTW ... Sorry to being a newbie ... but I've read loads of reports here about guys doing DATY on WG. Is it part of the service or does it depends on the mood/GFE at the time?

I'm a DATY person myself ... I love it, especially a 69er . But I can't see myself doing DATY on a WG. Is it safe/clean? and for those guys to do DATY regularly on WG ... have you thought about the previous punter who's dicks have been there before?

I would love to do a DATY on a WG but I'm not sure

What are you thoughts ...

hi, and welcome to the forum.

DATY is subjective.
safe/clean? of course not.
nothing is safe.

it just depends how much you love DATY.
if you like it, just go for it. just be smart abt it.
don't dive in even when if you see cauliflowers blisters.
and retreat if you smell something bad.

and not all WGs allow customers to DATY, so it's not part of the standard service.
but i think most WGs wouldn't mind people servicing them for a change.

anyway this is just my opinion.
i don't like DATY, so i might not be the right person to give advice anyway.

agree with Kaka - no it's not standard service, but if you have any chemistry / charm you can get it.  

Risk is up to you to assess - if you're punting you must have a level of risk-tolerance in the first place - seems to be more risky than kissing but less risky than unprotected sex.

It's definitely not standard for the customer to provide the service. And I have only once did DATY and that was with the infamous Ki Ki because she makes me do crazy things that I would not normally do.

But to each their own as with what kaka said but always be smart about it. You don't want to be licking up too much KY either because it's not good for you.

As already said, it depends on the mood and girl, like you yourself said. You may naturally try to venture that way and DATY is she does not object, or you may ask her. No Chinese is no objection; just point a finger to your open mouth and then point your finger down there on her. She'll either nod or shake her head.

Naturally just building up to it is probably the best course of action, if you want to. Let her be comfortable on the bed, kiss her neck, then chest and nipples, and move down with your tongue on her body downwards. Lick slowly on her belly and down to inner thighs, avoiding DATY, then teasingly move down on her. If she has the willpower to tell you to stop at any point, then just do so and enjoy the rest of the service, and try with a different girl next time.

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Yup. Ouch. Twice I've bumped into those hard cauliflowers with my tongue with hotel girls Since I don't speak Chinese, I did not try to say anything to the girls. Stopped DATY, but still continued the session with rubber firmly on.

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I seem to have about a 1 in 3 hit rate when it comes to finding HGs who allow DATY. The actual rate I could achieve could be higher because I only wanted to DATY with some girls (combination of chemistry, foreplay, whether in a hurry to get started or not, and general feeling of comfort with the girl).

With Europe-based escorts my DATY hit rate is much higher, probably around 3 in 4. Probably because those escorts have more of a GFE/PSE component in their service.

Also, I think if you do overnights, the HG is more likely to be open to DATY.

Fortunately I haven't run into hard cauliflowers yet but those would probably kill the mood so much till I go limp.

In the 141 walkups, DATY is not standard.  The older gals usually won't mind.  But most of the younger ones will.

The only standard at 141s is:

- Lick your nipples
- BJ (mostly covered)
- Mount

Any extras will depend on the girl, your negotiating skills and your charm.

At 37 Dundas and K-Pressure, it is standard.  I must have had 40+ sessions at 37D over the last 4 years, and only 1 girl there has refused DATY.

Has anyone offered more money when DATY was off the menu and been successful?

i would say the more experienced girls are ok to it. the lesser experienced girls are less ok to it but some are just shy, some are really just ticklish, some just dont want it...

maybe 50% to 70% is ok with it