How are you treated in the room?

  so far, alot of my experiences lately have been real good.  i mean, these girls are OVER-praising me.  I'm talking about non-stop praises.  funny thing are that the praises are so similar they sound like they come from a textbook for this industry.  let me give you some of the shiat they tell me:

1.  i'm so tall (6"0 tall, nothing spectacular, even for a chinese)
2.  my skin is so white and fair (which is kinda true)
3.  i'm so handsome and can find any girl i want (yeah right.  i have a mirror at home and it suggest else-wise.  i would rate myself in the 98th percentile in terms of ugliness amonsgt my age group of 25 year olds)
4.  i've got a long thick dick  (thickness is good for chinese, sometimes not being able to wear the condoms they supply, but length is justover 5 inches.  don't see what's so great)
5.  got a nice body (i'm not too fat but i have a small spare tyre on me)

  is this the slow season with people saving for their X'mas trip/vacation causing a lack of business, therefore causing these girls to work extra hard to earn your repeated business?  or are they saying this shit for real?  i'm often quite good with the 141 ladies and in fact have 2 which became my girlfriends (not the paying kind, of course).  but lately with the recent 4 visits, its been super and one even went out with me for dinner.

  last night this girl kept on prasing me to no end.  gave me a 2 hr. session.  but when i asked if she would be my gf, she rejected me and said that she would feel insecure cause i'm too good for her    just shows how sincere these girls are...

  just curious, do you guys get the same treatment lately?

What room are you talking about?

good post

well if you think about it, it's the default manner of talk for this business isn't it?  you are paying them so that you can have a good time.  you wouldn't expect them to tell you to your face that you've got ugly pimples, bad breath and nerdy hair style right?  It's all niceties for a purpose, that is, so that you relax feel good about yourself, get it up, and shoot without any complications and come back next time.  These are the kind of girls who are thinking about getting the job done right.  Smart girls know that if they sweeten the talk, things will go alot smoother, and they have a good chance of getting a tip or a bigger tip.  

I wouldn't read too much into whether they mean what they say or not.  You wouldn't know anyways, and it shouldn't matter unless you're looking to sink your ship and find a WG wife.  

Tell us about your dinner with the girl.  How you hook up, and how did dinner turn out?

Thanks for the reply.  i thought of your points before and now that you've said it, its reinforced.  its true, but the the 2 WG girlfriends i have are rathar unbothered with the mental game.  they just act the way they want.  if the customer is unpleasant, alot of times they just rush things through and vice versa.

  anyways, about the girl who i went out with for dinner.  to brag about it, she was not the first as  i went out with one for a concert and others for movies.  the girl i went to dinner with was quite direct.  she implied to me that she was waiting for me to ask her to be my girl friend.  she did it 3 times during the night (and even asked me to bring her to a trip in X'mas).  anyway, i am still with my current WG girlfriend, so i declined her request.  she's younger, but i know she's a party girl and i ain't all into that kinda scene.  well, turned out it was a bad move to take her out for dinner.  the sauna manager my girl works for, saw me with the girl as we were walking for dinner!  large commotion from my exisiting gf and was close to break-up.

  anyways, i'm not sure on this chick.  i asked her if she would expect to stop her job once she finds a bf and she said she wouldn't mind continuing to work.  but then, of course i believe every girl out there is trying to find someone to take them out of this trade, assuming they have at least some feelings toward the guy.

I'm not connecting here ... are these girls sauna girls or 141 girls ?

thanks for sharing your extra-141 experiences.  you must be a good charmer for girls to take on to you like that (considering you said you're not "handsome")

ok, my first girl used to be a sauna girl, then switched to 141.

my 2nd girl was sauna girl, then switched to 141, then now switched back to sauna.

not sure what it is.  but i look much better when the lights are dim.

  but can ppl answer me if the girls say the same crap to you guys?

You seem to have hooked up with a couple of complicated girls !

In saunas, I learned that most girls need to have good communication
with their client in order to have repeat business, they usually start
this by prasing them ... so yes, I do think this is a common pratice.

For 141 girls less so, but it still happens from time to time and especially
when the girl gets to know you better.

But what's your problem with this ?  enjoy it !  you know its BS anyway !
Just enjoy it, you're not going to get compliments like this from other
people anyway ... so just bask in your glory !!!

what 141 girls did u go out with?.. are they listed?...

Most of these girls, esp. those from the mainland, are really lonely. The Hotel Res girls are only here for a few weeks, but the room girls are more or less permanently based in HK. Yet few of them have boyfriends. I've spoken to a couple about their lives in HK, and tho both were VERY beautiful, neither one was seeing anyone.

None of these girls are going to feed you compliments if they don't like you. The really unpleasant clients are just serviced and ushered out. So if they are praising you, it's because they want to see you again, either for repeat business or as a girlfriend.

The main PROBLEM is there are lots of competition.

The solution is to have repeated business as they can't reply on new ones

Inorder to achieve this they

1. Praise, so their client will have the feel good factor
2. Maintain several so call b/f relationship with their clients

The latter comes in very useful when business is down as they can rely on their b/f to help them out in financial situations. As they have several b/f's they would expect at least one of them to help out. You don't need to appear to have money inorder to become their b/f...sorry only gullible.

The anger of knowing you are seeing someone is not jealous (due to love) but real anger that they have to share their "pot of gold" with someone else.

I'm not saying there are no true love in this field but these practises are very common.

Sometimes it's better if the guy doesn't know.

Are you sure? I have a micro penis and most of them told me that I have a huge penis!

Yesss.....they tell me my average dick is huge, that I look far younger than my age.....that I am SOOOOO strong
(li hai)....that I have beautiful eyes.....
Careful your ship doesn't get sunk and keep in mind that most of these girls would love few things more than to be
'kept' exclusively by a sugar daddy, no matter what he looks like as long as he has a handsome (probably LV) wallet....
Call me cynical, but SexySax, you're forgetting that they are Working Girls.....good PR is part of their work....making YOU
feel good is their profession....

But isn't it true for all professions - need to do good PR work,
make people feel good, make compliments, we all do that
one way or another. We just need to be wise enough
to know the difference !

It always surprises me to see how unwilling all the local bros are to see even a tiny glimpse of humanity in these girls.

it's the culture ...............................................

learning a culture is difficult; trying to understand it is even difficult ........................

I am sure that they are human beings just like us, with emotions and feelings. At the same time, I am not denying that, like Siklong69 stated, "making YOU feel good is their profession". Unless they don't understand the importance of maintaining a good client base, aka repeat customers, they wouldn't woo you unless they like you. True that. I don't know if you have heard of another term of being a prostitute, "sell smile" or "my siu". The term was created for a reason.

good range of opinions and thoughts on the subject.

i agree that i should just accept them of course with a grain of salt.  another side of me is to accept them and think of them as true.  life is short, you're spending good money.  you're out here to have a good time, why not just immerse yourself into it even though its for an hour or two's worth.

  i also agree that these gf's always treat u like a bf so that when hard times come they can give u a call and u're almost obligated to help out.

  i know all this, but its just lately, this issue has come out of hand and i was wondering if u boys feel an increasing alert on this.  its almost a desperate move to get u sinking your ship for them and coming back for seconds or thirds the next couple of days.

Being young means also being impetuous,
you're going to do what your heart and dick tells you to do
no matter what advise you hear.

My final advise - find a different sauna !

Good luck to ya