Does anybody know you monger aside from yourself? Personally, none of my friends know but it seems like some bros on this forum monger with their buddies.

I think mine would frown upon it.

So who in your life knows about "this thing of ours"?

nobody.
but i have seen many 2-3 friends / groups enter a brothel ....

... all my friends go

It's a Chinese thing, I think~

I always wondered about that too!  From the posts in the forums, it seems it's not just friends, but some guys hobby with their co-workers, bosses, etc.

As for myself, I have not shared my hobbies with anyone.  Not friends, not co-workers, nobody.  It's kinda like cheating on your SO.  A lot of guys are just too tempted to brag about their conquests, but it can only bring about trouble.  Not worth it to just get some kudos from them.  Eventually someone could get this info back to your SO and then you'd be in a world of shit.

No one knows.

When I was in Macau I saw quite a large group of Japanese men who were in a group and several smaller groups of Chinese - must be a cultural thing like sexpert said.

I go to strip clubs with a buddy of mine and I wind up getting extras quite often   when I'm getting a dance in a dark corner. I assume so does he but we've never spoken about it.

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Most of my friends in HK know what I like to do when I am in HK. But then they don't know my family in the US.

Only three of my best friends knows that I monger but we haven't gone out mongering together. Two of my friends we have gotten hookers
for their stags for them but the rest of us didn't partake those nights.

So, there are alot of Chinese on this forum?  I've seen a black guy posting something about HK WG refusing blacks.  I'm sure there are a couple expats here as well.  Some ABCs.

33, you need to learn and read more in this forum !

Not that I know of directly, only friends of friends.

"Hey, I hear that a friend of mine..." ;)

I wouldn't be comfortable sharing with any of my real life friends. Much less walk into a hotel together.

No one knows


I suggested something to my friends on a drunken night that I'd gone for "extras" but i dont think they
really got the message

My first time was during an overnight golf trip in China with a work colleague. I didn't plan on it but he obviously had it all worked out. First nite KTV and he picked a good one as I saw her leaving the next morning totally wasted. I didn't do anything as I got drunk. But made up for it after golf.

Last year, we went for a team building session at Huizhou and we had a couple of hours free time and a group of us (12 in fact) went to the local 5 star hotel and for a quick punt. Not all did it though.

And only my best friend in Australia knows and we talk about it all the time. He was in KL for a few years and boy, did he have fun.

everytime i bring a friend to sleaze...
they say the same thing..

"Fucking hell, i've known you for years! You wait till NOW before introducing me to such a heaven?!?!?!!!"


so yes, i monger with my friends...
and they increase day by day.


by the way, Heaven = China.

i monger with all my close friends... distant friends and co-workers only stand on the sidelines and listen to my stories.

closest friends consist of 5 white boys, and 10 asian.... 5-htp is labelled as "the male slut"

i introduced punting to 75% of them... in fact, when they get a chance to sneak away from their wives/gf's... i am the first person they call... cuz they know, 5-htp doesnt let down a feening bro

even when my friends friends come from outta town, they are referred to 5-htp for mongering activities...

now the real question is, has anyone gone punting with family????

with either father, uncle, cousin, brother???

my family knows what kind of lifestyle i live, and they arent surprised at all...

My best friend in Aus knows my two brothers as well and he's been punting with them. But my brothers don't know that I punt as well and I want to keep it that way. I rather they don't know in case it slips out when we have a bust-up.

I had a friend in university whose dad took him to a wg to lose his virginity. He said that he wanted my friend to get the full service for his first time. No fluffing about with an inexperienced girl.

I know lotsa asians who go in packs.  sometimes they even prefer it.  I even accompany friends where I just waited at waiting area while they went in.  I even got some good convo with girls who are just waiting around haha

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Whoa, punting with family. That's a whole other level. Imagine punting with your brother in law.....

I pretty much fly solo.

Funnily enough my intro into the scene was almost 10 years ago in San Francisco at an AMP (Asian massage parlour).  I thought it was just going to be a nice sensual rub but then the gal once in the room offered up the remainder of the menu...US$200 for 'everything'.  Turned out it was a great massage (incl back walking) plus FS (non-GFE).  Korean gal!

It was at the Golden Flower spa...now defunct after a raid and charges of trafficking.

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I have some work buddies I operate with, one's I know who feel same way as me. I remember a couple years ago I went to HK for a week for a conference with a very good friend of mine. We wasted 5 days being "coy" and neither of us made any moves. Then another guy we were with just got into it, a guy we least expected, we looked at each other and said, fuck it! Next trip was much morefun, we played every night!

Another time, I was travelling with an associate who is also a very good friend. We had been "good" the whole trip. We went to a bar (Hari's), sat and had a few drinks, watched the girls but didn't play. Finally, night 4, a couple of WG's walked up to us and said "excuse me, but we have "ALL" been watching you 2 guys since you arrived Sunday night..." she then proceeded to tell us what we had been drinking, what food we ate, what time we would arrive / leave etc. She said all the girls had been waiting for one of us to make a move, they had been betting on who would move first and which girl each of us would most likely go for. However after 4 days, they were starting to be concerned that because nothing had happened we might be gay... GAY!?!!? NO NO NO! not that there's anything wrong with that!

that made things very easy since we both justified our actions the next few nights as an effort to "restore our reputations". By the end of the week, the girls had no doubt about our interest in girls!

Nobody knows.  I just dont know how some of my friends would feel about it and the worst is the word spreading back to my SO.  That would be a bad situation.  I like going by myself and I only do it when I travel overseas, never in my home town.