Subject: Asking for money upfront - what would YOU do?
YouthAgainst
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Post at 19-7-2009 10:46  Profile P.M. 
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Asking for money upfront - what would YOU do?

Just had this stuation - walked into a room of a walk-up

Asked for her name, she was a bit evasive - saying 'why do you need to
know my name' etc...then she asked for money upfront. After reading
some reports and general lurking in the chat section i knew this was a
bit of a no-no. When she said it was 30mins i just knew this was not
going to be a good experience.

So i stood firm - i told her i pay the money after - ALWAYS and she
insisted on money before. When she sensed i wasnt budging and
was moving to leave, she relented a little but it was soured already
so i just left. I think she was surprised but her attitude was a real turn-off
and i headed elsewhere.
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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

It wouldn't a Thai girl in Shau Kei Wan, would it?   Anyway, it's a turn-off, but they must be doing it for a reason ... maybe a bad "customer" in the area.
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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

Had a similar case with a Malaysian gal in National Court (long gone from the DB)...
she said give me money first - however what I understood was very different: "Give me name first" - so there was some comic confusion. After repeating 3 times I named her "Slut" (I know, not very creative) but she still said the same thing. But finally she made some sign indicating $$$. After realizing what she said I felt sooo stupid.

In the end we agreed that I put the fee on to the nightstand and she can take it after the deed is done. Servicewise all I remember is that she rode me extremely fast to make me cum quickly...
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Post at 19-7-2009 21:40  Profile P.M. 
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no, it was in Tai Po and when i looked at the DB i saw that she lied abt her
name as well

just soured the experience for me, and i wasnt going to waste my time/money
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Reply #3 homer168's post

That's a funny account
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Reply #4 YouthAgainst's post

It's happened to me once before but in Cheung Sha Wan in a place I used to frequent: http://forum.sex141.com/eforum/v ... mp;extra=page%3D13.  (this was my very first report on this forum).  I would have also gone, but she was so damn cute and I was so horny that I felt compelled to enter.

(edit: it should be "Sham Shui Po" not "Cheung Sha Wan")

[ Last edited by  Thai-delight at 20-7-2009 08:40 ]
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Reply #4 YouthAgainst's post

Please post the link, bro.




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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

SOP in Hong Kong is to pay AFTER the service.  So you did the right thing and you made a good decision!
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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

You had bad luck bro, and did the right thing.  No sense going ahead with no chemistry, and with the vast number of girls with a better attitude you're best off going next door.  

Seriously, I'm not surprised it happens - in any group of 1000 people you'll find some with a bad attitude - but in my own experience I've never hadthat happen to me yet.  Guess it's only a matter of time for any of us.  But the bros do tend to report bad experiences faster than good ones, which means the high proportion of favourable reports to unfavourable ones tells you what you should be expecting from most WGs.  

SOOOOO ....

What I would do in your place is write a short visit report in the reports section, with a link to her profile, and a copy of her profile pic uploaded.  Then the bros know her attitude, and only go to see her if they're really into the challenge!!!




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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

agree, you did the right thing, std procedure is to pay afterwards...take your money and have fun elsewhere...don't put up with these girls fucking around in any way.
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i would pay after as it seems like thats the way it is always done.. theres plenty of girls out there if one is giving you this trouble
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SOP different in Australia

SOP in Australia and I think a lot of western countries is pay first have fun later. I remembered when I was in Singapore, the girl was surprised when I paid her first. So I guess the SOP in Asia is have fun now and Pay later
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asking to pay up front is a good sign that her service is shit.  so you just might have avoided being ripped off.
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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

if she's not willing to give name to start with, what makes anyone thinks she will show her family jewel at all during the session?

Verdict: She shouldn't be in the business. pretend to dig your pockets for some hongkong dollars, then take your middle finger out just to show her a big "FUCK YOU"

PS: don't do that in Canada or the US, you gotta pay up front where I'm from

ML




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Reply #1 YouthAgainst's post

YouthAgainst, you did the right thing.

With her display of attitude at the outset, things
wouldn't likely have improved if you had acquiesced.

Why did she do it? Maybe . . .

(1) A previous customer did a runner on her
(does this ever happen? I know times are hard,
but really!)

(2) She was a substitute (reluctance to give her
name supports this) from out of town (continent?)
and didn't know how things work here.

(3) Her skills sucked and she knew there was
zero chance of a tip, so what the hell.

(4) She was conflicted about what she was
doing and needed to have the moolah in her
hot little hands to make her feel OK about it.

In any case, I agree with ML she likely
shouldn't be in the business, or any service
business at all.
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Hmm, SOP here in the US is pay up front. Kinda sucks when you get bad service, but at least in Texas you pay the entire fee up front and most saunas and spas.
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