1punt2punt4 : I was really nervous weeks before my visit and up onto the first night. I have never gone to a bar alone in my life. It would always go with at least 1 friend. To do something so new at my blessed age of 45 was difficult.
But, i must say, truly, the staff and people around you give zero fucks if you are alone, with 2 or in a group. And i mean "zero fucks". It doesnt even register as a thing it seems. Total lack of judgement to my surprise. I have been there 4 or 5 times and not once i got a bad feeling from anyone there. Maybe they even prefer you come alone because you won't waste time chatting to your friends. Its a business and they want you as a customer.
Its a lot of fun and becoming something to look forward to.
Really, don't worry, just give it a try. Skip to the 2nd floor as the ground floor is the most intimidating (people watchers). Many men seem to travel alone, nobody is judging because we are all there for the same reasons. And a bonus is that there is a no camera policy and it shows, you don't really see people taking pictures or even watching their phones. It feels like going out in the 90's. No phones  | |
