Reply #3 ernieb's post
seems straightforward to me
she works there, she doesn't manage the place
next time you go, simply talk to the MMS discreetly at the counter, and say you want to try someone else. It's up to the management to deal with her feelings. You can even say there's nothing wrong with the girl you just want to try someone different. They'll understand and respond, and handle her feelings.
Of course if she's already there when you walk in, nothing wrong with caving in again to give her face - but the whole thing about Chinese 'face' is that Chinese culture has all the checks and balances needed to handle issues behind the scenes without making a scene.
At the end of the day, you're paying the establishment not the girl. It's very much in the management's interest to make sure you're satisfied, because they know as well as we do, you're simply going to walk away if you're given her again. And they don't want that. | |
