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tfhalfjp

11-10-2012 23:23


Yeah,  I'm still struggling with this whole thing.  I really care about this girl, think that she is a class act, but worried about how this will play out.  She once said to me how nice it would be to have a child, and I immediately told her that I had a V, and can't have anymore kids.  I actually told her that I want her to find a Chinese boyfriend or husband so that she wouldn't be lonely, but she gets mad when I say that.  I should say that she just quit working at the hotel because she graduated from University and is now starting a proffessional career.  She is a rare find in China...IMHO.  We talk by email at least four times each week, and I always finish feeling even better about the situation.
   It's a real dilemna to decide how to go forward from here.  Can we just ride this out for a few years...

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wander 12-10-2012 08:42 Acceptance +1 Yes. I have for years. But saying bye CAN be tough




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