Update
Just a quick update on my own situation (and to show that things usually do fall apart):
WG #1 (the one who I spent the day with):
Was recently on her rag and she went back to her home for 4 days. Asked if I'd pick her up at the airport (told her I couldn't), and then asked if she could come over for a night before going back to work (also declined, didn't want to lead her on). She also brought back some produce from her home that she wanted to give to me, but I also declined that as well, again, not wanting to lead her on.
WG #2 (the cologne giver):
Right after my birthday, she started texting/calling non-stop. Every text was "where are you" or "what are you doing", and she'd drop those ever so subtle hints that she thought I was out at other saunas (to be fair, she was right maybe 50% of the time, heh heh). She'd throw little hissy fits that I didn't return her calls right away or text back immediately, so I finally had to tell her to relax (which she really didn't) and then called the whole thing off.
So yes, while they do fall for customers, I think their perspective and take on relationships is definitely skewed, mostly through trust issues (and to be honest, they have a right to be distrustful! haha) | |
