haha, i dont know if there should be a prescriptive way to answer this question, as all girls have differing erogenous zones and different responses to different techniques. its also different when going down on a wg as opposed to a SO. when i go down on a wg (rarely) its more to satisfy my hunger for tasting some pussy, and of course hoping she would feel pleasure too. so in that sense, i dont really put my full effort in as also time is usually an issue.
with the SO, i spend a lot more time, similar to how V describes it above, working the other areas long before actually diving in. the key thing is to remember that with women, a cerebral approach often works best. by this i mean that to work her to her O begins long before the clothes even come off. build up that sexual energy at dinner, during the evening, conversation, etc. if this is somewhat achieved, then the big O will come that much easier when u actually get down there. | |